Wednesday, 17 August 2016

Some one asked me yesterday where I would like to see myself in 10 years, so I thought why not write about it.

The first thing I would like is a healthy relationship, a loving one with much emotion, not much arguing and a full loving partner.
The second thing I would love is a stable and good paying job, so I can look after myself and get the thing I need, like shopping and to pay bills.
Which leads me to my third thing, I want to have my own house, my own place to do what I want and to be independent.
The fourth thing is I want to be more confident in anything I do, and know that I have achieved great things in life.
The fifth thing I would like is a family, to adopt some kids and raise them as my own and give them as much love as I can give.
I also would like a new surroundings and to visit many places and to capture it all on camera. One of the first places I want to go is America and lots of places in it. So many sights to see and capture forever.

I mainly want to have the simplest of lives and enjoy every moment, you only live once so why not make every day count and do what you love.

Where would you like to see yourself in 10 years? .....

Sunday, 14 August 2016

Being the middle kid.

This is a topic I can truly talk about as I am a middle kid, I have one older and one younger sister. Being the middle child isn't easy, sometimes you get told your too old for something or the opposite, too young for something. It can become quite stressful.

But there are perks, you have someone older that can help you through certain times of your life and someone you can learn from, and with having a younger sibling you can guide them, help them even though they both can be pains at the time, but that is just how sibling are. Sometimes we have a harder time growing up them other as studies suggest, but we all have to go through life differently and make the most out of what we have got.

From my experience being the middle child, sometimes I feel left out, like forgotten about, I wonder if any of you feel the same. At times I wonder how my sisters feel, what does it feel like to be the youngest or the oldest.

Lots of people and studies have different views on the middle child of the family, some say we grow up faster and have more chance of succeeding in things, but then others suggest that we are lonely, and more likely to become outsiders. I think its different for everyone and how they have been brought up, we are all different and unique in our own ways.

I found this in a article that may held you

The 8 reasons why the middle child is the best:

1.  They're skillful negotiators and peacemakers

2.They're more likely to take risks and be creative

3.They're less likely to buckle under pressure

4. Middle children are proven entrepreneurs

5. They make great relationship partners

6. Middleborns are just as smart as their siblings

7. They get the perks of having both older and younger siblings.

8.Middles are less susceptible to helicopter parenting

What are your thoughts on the 8 things, I would love to hear you views, as I agree with some and not others, so comment and le me know



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