Sunday, 14 August 2016

Being the middle kid.

This is a topic I can truly talk about as I am a middle kid, I have one older and one younger sister. Being the middle child isn't easy, sometimes you get told your too old for something or the opposite, too young for something. It can become quite stressful.

But there are perks, you have someone older that can help you through certain times of your life and someone you can learn from, and with having a younger sibling you can guide them, help them even though they both can be pains at the time, but that is just how sibling are. Sometimes we have a harder time growing up them other as studies suggest, but we all have to go through life differently and make the most out of what we have got.

From my experience being the middle child, sometimes I feel left out, like forgotten about, I wonder if any of you feel the same. At times I wonder how my sisters feel, what does it feel like to be the youngest or the oldest.

Lots of people and studies have different views on the middle child of the family, some say we grow up faster and have more chance of succeeding in things, but then others suggest that we are lonely, and more likely to become outsiders. I think its different for everyone and how they have been brought up, we are all different and unique in our own ways.

I found this in a article that may held you

The 8 reasons why the middle child is the best:

1.  They're skillful negotiators and peacemakers

2.They're more likely to take risks and be creative

3.They're less likely to buckle under pressure

4. Middle children are proven entrepreneurs

5. They make great relationship partners

6. Middleborns are just as smart as their siblings

7. They get the perks of having both older and younger siblings.

8.Middles are less susceptible to helicopter parenting

What are your thoughts on the 8 things, I would love to hear you views, as I agree with some and not others, so comment and le me know



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